I am often greeted with incredulous looks when I tell someone I am in a long-distance relationship. I never imagined I would be "the type" to date long-distance, and before now I would have been incredulous as well. However, even though it is sometimes so painful to be separated, I know now that anything is bearable if you are with the right person. Also, there are many benefits to dating long-distance.
I ask you, what areas of your relationship need to be strengthened if you do not think one or both of you could withstand distance? Reid and I never question eachother's faithfulness because we trust eachother completely. We have excellent communication, because talking is the essence of our relationship. Many women crave emotional support and understanding in a relationship. I always know Reid will be there, even if only on Skype or the phone, to listen, comfort, or encourage.
We appreciate our time together infinitely more because we are separate so much of the time. because we are already conquering such a difficult challenge in our relationship, other struggles will be much less challenging because we will be able to communicate face-to-face.
I have learned a little more the meaning of the phrase "love is a decision, not just a feeling." It is a choice, an act of the will. Regardless of the circumstances of your relationship, when the going gets tough, keep in the front of your mind what qualities you admire in your loved one, and remember what brought you together and attracted you to eachother. Remind eachother of them especially, and the spark of your love will be ever re-kindled.
[Side note: All of this having been said, I can't wait until the day Reid and I are together.] :)
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